A new survey shows that nearly 6 in 10 twenty-somethings would rather lock eyes than lock lips when it comes to flirting.

According to the September 2025 EZContacts report, intense eye contact feels more intimate than touching — making “look, don’t touch” the new rule of romance.

Researchers polled 1,000 adults — singles and couples alike — to figure out how much our eyes (and the glasses that frame them) influence attraction.

“Eye contact isn’t just flirtation,” the authors wrote. “It’s personal, vulnerable, and can ignite a bond faster than words.”

The findings show a gender split: 62% of Gen Z women prefer seductive stares over touching, compared to 55% of Gen Z men who also find prolonged gazes hotter than hands-on moves.

The shift reflects Gen Z’s broader rejection of anything that feels fake. With many young people drifting away from AI-heavy dating apps and algorithmic “wingmen,” they’re seeking authenticity through in-person chemistry — eye-to-eye, not screen-to-screen.

“Looking into someone’s eyes in real life builds trust instantly,” researchers explained. “It cuts through the artificial noise of online dating.” However, the revelations don’t stop there: eyewear is having a major glow-up.

The survey revealed that 58% of participants consider glasses a turn-on. Men were the most smitten, with 69% saying specs are sexy, while 46% of women admitted the same.

Frame style matters, too. Black-rimmed glasses suggest “confidence and seriousness,” while bold colors project fun and extroversion.

“That’s not just tolerance,” researchers said. “It’s a complete reversal of decades of pop culture stereotypes that painted glasses as unattractive or nerdy.”

The discovery also echoes a British Journal of Psychology study that found people often value subtler traits — like movement, scent, or voice — over “perfect” facial features when choosing a partner.

Ultimately, experts say, attraction isn’t only about appearances. “Dating is about more than how we see others,” researchers concluded. “It’s about whether we feel seen. Frames may highlight the face, but the eyes tell the real story.”