‘Who cares’ culture in Kerala: Actress calls out political leadership for ignoring woman’s complaint against youth leader

Kochi/Thiruvananthapuram – Actress, model, and former media professional Rini Ann George has spoken out against a young political leader, alleging a pattern of inappropriate behaviour and indifference from political leadership even after complaints were raised.

In an interaction with Mathrubhumi.com, Rini claimed that the leader had sent her a message suggesting they book a room at a five-star hotel, implying a private meeting. She said she reacted strongly to the message and advised him that such behaviour was unacceptable, especially from someone viewed as a rising and capable figure in politics. Although the messages stopped temporarily, she alleged that similar communication resumed later.

Rini said she had attempted to handle the situation discreetly, first objecting and then advising the leader as a friend to behave responsibly. However, she noted that despite multiple complaints across forums, no action was taken – instead, the individual continued to receive recognition and responsibilities within the party. This, she said, reflects a deep-rooted “who cares?” attitude of so-called respectable figures.

"I’ve used the phrase ‘who cares’ deliberately," Rini said, "because that’s exactly the response I received from multiple quarters after raising genuine concerns."

While clarifying that she does not wish to defame any organisation, she expressed disappointment at the way similar complaints raised by women are routinely brushed aside. She said she maintains personal friendships and warm ties with many members of the leader's political party, which is why she has so far chosen not to disclose his identity. But she warned that if the misconduct continues, she would be forced to name him publicly.

Fake accounts and mental trauma

Rini maintained that her acquaintance with the leader began over three years ago through social media. What started as casual conversation evolved into repeated instances of inappropriate messaging, including through a fake account, WhatsApp, and Telegram.

Despite making it clear that she was uncomfortable and repeatedly blocking him, the leader continued to contact her. She noted that his behaviour caused her mental distress, which initially kept her from going public. However, after noticing similar allegations against the same person emerging on social media, she felt compelled to speak out—not just for herself, but for others who may have experienced the same.

Rini said she confronted the leader directly about the potential consequences of his actions. His response, however, was reportedly dismissive. He is said to have cited other politicians accused in more serious harassment cases who continue to thrive in their careers, adding that he had all the protection and backing he needed to remain unaffected.

Not personal, but political

Rini clarified that she had not filed a legal case because the issue was not just personal—it was reflective of a broader problem in political culture. "This isn’t just about me," she said. "I wasn’t severely harmed. But the lack of accountability, the normalisation of misconduct, and the way women's voices are disregarded – that's what pushed me to speak out."

She emphasised that political leaders must be held to higher moral standards and that women should feel safe and respected when engaging in public life. "It’s important to speak up, not to defame, but to inspire others to call out inappropriate behaviour and to demand change within political institutions," she noted.