However, even before his mother could celebrate her 84th birthday, Capt Sathe, 58, died in the air crash.
"Today is the birthday of Capt Sathe'smother. He had last met his parents in March and was constantly in touch with them over phone since then. They had last spoken a day before yesterday," his nephew Dr Yashodhan Sathe told PTI on
"Captain had told some of the relatives that if flights are available, he would pay a surprise visit to his mother on her birthday," he said.
Captain Sathe lived with his wife in Mumbai. His mother, Neela Sathe, who lives with her husband Vasant Sathe, a retired colonel, in Bharat Nagar locality of the city, said that after the coronavirus outbreak, he had told her not to step out of the house.
"He used to tell me not to go out due to the pandemic.
He would tell me that if something happens to me, he would feel bad. And suddenly this tragedy struck...what can we do before the will of the God...," she said with tears in her eyes.
She remembered him as being "top" in everything- be it studies or sports.
"He was brilliant in table tennis, squash. He was also very good at horse riding," she said.
"Our Son had also received the rare'Sword of Honour'. However, he would not boast about his achievements," she said, adding that he was the first Maharashtrian to get all the eight prizes of Air Force.
"He was very helpful and would do anything for others. During the Gujarat floods, he had saved the children of servicemen by carrying them on his shoulders. He was a very bright officer," she said.
His mother also remembered her elder son Vikas Sathe a lieutenant in Army, who died in a road accident.
Infact, Captain Deepak Sathe had survived an air crash in the early 1990s when he was in the Air Force and was hospitalised for six months, his cousin said.
Sathe had suffered multiple injuries on his skull in that incident, but due to his strong will power and passion he cleared the test and started flying again,
The Air India Express flight from Dubai with 190 on board overshot the tabletop runway in Kozhikode airport in Kerala on Friday night while landing in heavy rains and fell into a valley 35 feet below and broke into two portions.
Captain Sathe, who was the pilot-in-command and his co-pilot Akhilesh Kumar were among those who died in the incident.
Sathe was a former Wing Commander of the Indian Air Force (IAF) and had served at the force's flight testing establishment. He was from 58th course of National Defence Academy (NDA), Pune.
Dr Yashodhan Sathe said that the body of Captain Sathe is yet to be handed over to the family.
"His wife and brother-in-law are in Kozhikode, but the decision about where the last rites will be held is yet to be taken. Due to the coronavirus restrictions, we will not be able to go there," he said.
Captain Sathe has two sons- Dhananjay and Shantanu. "Dhananjay lives in Bengaluru and he is trying to reach Kozhikode by road. His second son is in the USA and he won't be able to come," Dr Yashodhan said. PTI